Making friends as you get older seems more complex and more challenging, which seems funny since we learn so much about who we are as the years go on. When you have child with a disability, it feels like a complete mystery if you will ever find the mom friends that hear you and understand your life.  Look for these ladies if possible.  The been there done that, mom.She has walked through this life, and her children are older. She tells you that all your feelings are valid and gives you light that comes with time and experience. She also doesn’t judge the hard that you live each day. She…